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Everything You Need to Know Before Buying Your First Vibrator

Feb 10, 2025perry weldon

Thinking about buying your first vibrator? With so many different toys on the market, it’s only natural to feel a little overwhelmed – especially if you don’t yet know what kind of sensations you enjoy. Don’t worry - we’ve got you! 

To help you make the right decision, the team here at LoveKinx have put together this short and simple guide with everything you need to know before buying your first vibrator. Let’s dive straight in!


Why Do People Love Vibrators SO much?

 

Whether you're flying solo or spicing things up with a partner, buying your first vibrator can take your pleasure to a whole new level. Here’s why they’re a game changer:

  • Self-discovery: If you’ve not yet found what truly gets you going, a vibrator is a great way to learn about your body. Not only will this lead to better orgasms, but also improve body confidence too.
  • Better orgasms: Many people find vibrators help them orgasm faster and more intensely. Lots of women struggle to orgasm from internal stimulation alone, so vibrators can certainly help in this department!
  • Stress relief: Orgasms release endorphins, which help to reduce stress and boost your mood. If you ask us, self-pleasure is the best kind of self-care!


Types of Vibrators: Which One is Right for You?

 

There are lots of different types of vibrators on the market and in the beginning, trial and error is often required. This is a totally normal part of getting to know your body better, so try not to be discouraged if the first vibrator you buy isn’t for you.

Below, we’ve broken down the different vibrator categories:


Classic Bullet Vibrators

 

Small, discreet, and powerful, bullet vibrators are the perfect introduction to the world of sex toys. They're great for clitoral stimulation and are often the most affordable too!


Wand Massagers

 

Wand vibrators are powerful and perfect for all-over body stimulation. While they’re bigger than a bullet, their intense vibrations make them a firm favourite for many. It must be said, however, that the larger wand vibrators can sometimes be noisier than a simple bullet.


Rabbit Vibrators

 

Made famous by Sex and the City, the rabbit vibrator is a dual-action toy designed to stimulate both the clitoris and the G-spot simultaneously. If you’re looking for deep, blended orgasms, this one’s a winner!


G-Spot Vibrators

 

Curved to perfection, G-spot vibrators are designed for those of you who love internal stimulation.


Air Pulse Stimulators

 

A newer addition to the market, air pulse stimulators use air pulses instead of traditional vibrations to create a suction-like sensation. They mimic oral sex and are perfect for those who enjoy intense clitoral stimulation.


How to Choose Your First Vibrator

 

Now that you know the types, here are some factors to consider when buying your first vibrator:


Materials

 

Go for body-safe materials like silicone, ABS plastic, or glass. Avoid anything with phthalates or toxic chemicals - you want your pleasure to be as safe as it is satisfying!


Size and Shape

 

If you’re new to vibrators, start small and work your way up. A slim bullet or a small G-spot toy might be a better choice than a powerful wand for your first experience.


Power and Vibration Settings

 

Some vibrators have gentle vibrations, while others pack a punch. If you’re not sure what you like, choose a toy with multiple settings so you can experiment.


Noise Level

 

If you have housemates or thin walls, a super-loud vibrator might not be ideal. Look for quieter models if discretion is key.


Waterproof or Not?

 

Planning to take your pleasure into the bath or shower? Make sure you check whether your vibrator is waterproof.


Taking Care of Your Sex Toys

 

Now that you’ve chosen your dream toy, let’s talk about keeping it as good as new!

  • Clean before and after use with a gentle, body-safe toy cleaner or warm water and mild soap.
  • Store properly in a clean, dry place - preferably in a storage bag to keep dust and bacteria away.
  • Use the right lube. Water-based lubricants are safe for all toys, but if you’re using a silicone toy, avoid silicone-based lubes as they can degrade the material.
  • Charge it up (if it’s rechargeable) so it’s ready to go when you are!


Buying Your First Vibrator

 

Getting your first vibrator is an exciting step, and we hope this guide has helped you feel more confident in making your choice.

At LoveKinx, we stock a variety of incredible brands and styles to suit every preference. Click here to start your search!

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