Lube can make all the difference when it comes to pleasure and improving comfort during sex or solo play. But with lots of different types on the market, knowing which lube to go for can feel overwhelming. Water, oil, and silicone are the three main types of lubrication available– but which is best for your favourite type of play?
At LoveKinx UK, we believe exploring pleasure should be simple, fun, and most of all, comfortable. That’s why we’ve created this handy guide to help you find the right lube for every occasion!
Water-Based Lube
Water-based lube is a great all-rounder and is the best place to start if this is your first time trying a lubricant. It’s versatile, lightweight, and super easy to clean up. They also work well with condoms and most sex toys, making it both an essential and totally fool proof!
When to use it: Perfect for general use.
Pros: Versatile, safe to use with toys and condoms, and easy to wash off.
Cons: Water-based lube tends to dry out quicker and might need reapplication during longer sessions.
Our Favourite: The Lubido Water Based Lubricant is our personal fave! It’s available on the LoveKinx UK website in two handy sizes – 30ml (travel size) and 500ml. Prices start from £2.99.
Silicone-Based Lube
Silicone-lube may be less versatile than its water-based counterpart, but it will certainly earn its place within your collection. It’s long-lasting, waterproof, and silky smooth!
When to use it: Great for anal play and water-based activities.
Pros: Long-lasting, waterproof, and safe for use with latex condoms.
Cons: This type of lube is not compatible with silicone sex toys, as it can damage them.
Our Favourite: The Naturals Silver Silicone Lubricant is our top choice for longevity! Available in 59ml, 125ml, and 255ml. Prices start from £19.99.
Oil-Based Lube
Oil-based lubes offer a luxurious, thick texture that can enhance intimacy and sensations. Due to their ingredients, however, they are better left for external use, such as a sensual massage.
When to use it: Perfect for massages and other types of external use.
Pros: Super moisturising and doubles up as a massage oil.
Cons: Can stain fabrics and not safe for use with latex condoms.
Our Favourite: The Natural Plant-Oil Based Personal Lubricant by YES has to be our top pick on the LoveKinx UK website. Available in one size – 80ml – with a RRP of £11.99.
Things to Keep in Mind When Purchasing Lube
Once you’ve chosen the type of lube that’s right for your preferences, it’s time to pick the brand. But there are a couple more things you should think about first, including…
· The Ingredients: Look for lubes that are free from parabens, glycerin, and other irritants. At LoveKinx UK, we prioritise body-safe formulas that are gentle on your skin.
· Compatibility: If you plan to use condoms or a sex toy alongside lube, make sure to double check their compatibility. As we touched on earlier, some lubricants can break down sex toys prematurely, whilst others can alter the effectiveness of latex condoms.
· Personal Preference: In addition to the above, you may also want to consider lubes with added extras, such as warming sensations or different flavours.
Common Lube Myths
Lubricants are only for people who struggle to get wet.
There’s long been stigma surrounding the use of lube, with people assuming it’s only for those who struggle to get wet during intimate moments. This simply isn’t true, however. Lube can make good experiences even better, no matter who you are. It enhances pleasure, reduces friction, and can bring an extra level of comfort and enjoyment for everyone involved!
All natural oils are safe to use.
Just because something is labelled as “natural” doesn’t mean it’s safe for every use. While natural oils like coconut oil might seem like a harmless, soothing option, they can actually break down the material of latex condoms, rendering them ineffective. This increases the risk of breakage or failure during use. Additionally, oils can be difficult to clean off, and may not always be ideal for internal use, as they can disrupt the natural pH balance of intimate areas.
All lubes are the same.
Not even close! Lubricants are not a one-size-fits-all product, and it’s essential to match the right type of lube to your needs. Whether you're seeking something long-lasting, hypoallergenic, or extra-slick, each lube is formulated for specific purposes. Use our handy guide above to find the right lube for you!
Where to Buy Lube
Choosing the right lube doesn’t have to be complicated. By understanding the different types and considering your own sexual preferences, you can find a lube that’s perfect for you!
At LoveKinx UK, we’re here to make that choice easy and fun, with a range of products that cater to all preferences and occasions. Click here to shop our wide range of lubes!
